October 12, 2023
Like the rest of the world, we have watched the horrific events occurring in Israel, the Gaza Strip, and the West Bank with heavy hearts, and as a community, we must recognize that many of our students, families, faculty, and staff are deeply, personally, and painfully affected by violence in this region. Understanding that this conflict has deep historical roots and complexities, we nevertheless, without exception, condemn acts of terrorism, the targeting of civilians, and the loss of innocent lives.
Our focus during this time, as it always is, is firmly centered on our students’ sense of safety and well-being. Please know that teachers will support our students in developmentally appropriate ways, just as they do every day in the classroom.
If you are looking for information on how to talk about the conflict with your child, I’d like to offer a few resources. As you consider your child’s age, stage, and readiness for a conversation about war, here are some resources for your consideration.
- Explaining the News to Our Kids (Common Sense Media)
- Helping Children Cope with Frightening News (Child Mind Institute)
- How to Talk to Children about Difficult News (American Psychological Association)
- How to Talk to Children About the Violence in Israel and Gaza (NPR)
- Helping Children Cope with Terrorism–Tips for Families and Educators (National Association of School Psychologists)
- Tips for Talking With and Helping Children and Youth Cope After a Disaster or Traumatic Event (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration)
- Talking to Children About Tragedies (American Academy of Pediatrics)
- Helping Children Cope After a Traumatic Event (Child Mind Institute)
- Promoting Compassion and Acceptance in Crisis (National Association of School Psychologists)
- Resilience in a Time of War: Tips for Parents and Teachers of Elementary School Children (American Psychological Association)
In addition, national news outlets are reporting that parents are encouraged to delete their children’s social media accounts ahead of the possible release of disturbing videos.
Please visit MPA’s Mental Health Resources page for these and additional resources. You will also find the contact information for MPA’s mental health experts there. Please know they are available to you and your family should you benefit from additional support.
