Upper School Division News May 5, 2022

from Mark Segal, Upper School Director

There are some childhood experiences that fade away and others that last a lifetime. I am unsure why this is the case, but know that it is true. One of those experiences that has lasted a lifetime with me was when my father brought me to a business gathering where Rod Carew was the featured speaker. For those unfamiliar with him, Carew was a major league baseball player who played for almost 20 years for the Minnesota Twins and California Angeles. Appearing in 18 straight All-Star games and holding the highest MN Twins batting average (.388), Rod Carew was elected to the National Baseball Hall of Fame in 1991, the first year he was eligible. The event and what Carew spoke about are distant memories, but what remains is my vivid recollection of meeting one of my childhood idols. Thankfully, there was a picture taken of our meeting and in it he and I were shaking were shaking hands and looking each other directly in the eye.

Earlier this week, local businessman and author Harvey Mackay wrote an article in the Star Tribune entitled, “Rediscover the Lost Art of Eye Contact and See the Magic.” In the article, Mackay shares that, “unfortunately, eye contact has become a lost art.” He refers to the frenetic pace of people’s lives and the seemingly frequent draw to looking down at a smartphone, even though someone may be right in front of you.

There have been several studies on the importance and necessity of making eye contact. In virtually every one that I reviewed, the research showed that eye contact is one of the most powerful ways to make someone feel recognized, understood, and validated. A 2002 MIT study fund that infants were more likely to follow an adult’s eye movement rather than just their head movements. The study validates the bond and importance of eye contact in an infant’s upbringing. Recognizing this, however, still can present a challenge for some. Mackay shares that, “making eye contact is a skill that can be learned. It might take a little practice, but it can have a significant impact on your work and personal life.” As a school administrator for the past quarter century, I have found that much can be said and explained by students without them actually saying a word. Eye contact, or the lack thereof, plays a vital role in both verbal and nonverbal communication. It is for this and multiple other reasons that the art of eye contact through communication (including listening) is a focus at MPA. Starting at a young age our students work on presenting to their classmates and peers in activities like the Parade of States and CHAMP Assemblies, in middle school they present their Future City projects and facilitate club and organization meetings, and in upper school they make proposals to the administration and present their Senior Performances to their peers or the full upper school community.

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Middle School Division News May 5, 2022

from Dr. Jenn Milam, Middle School Director

May Days –Time is short, but the days are long!
We are down to just 22.5 days of school as of today. We have so much to still do together, and I hope you’ll take this week’s news and sit down with your family planner and chart your next few weeks. Our last day of school is Wednesday, June 8, and dismissal that day is at 10:30 AM. There are often class gatherings planned for that afternoon, so be sure to follow your Schoology groups and check your email for invitations and details and/or reach out to your Parents Association grade representatives.

Happy Sunny Spring!

Grade 6 and 7 Overnights
We are excited to share that we have been able to (re)schedule the overnight class excursions for sixth and seventh grades at Eagle Bluff. The seventh grade class will travel to Eagle Bluff (Lanesboro, MN) on Monday, May 23 and return Wednesday, May 25. Similarly, the sixth grade class will leave on Wednesday, June 1 and return on Friday, June 3. We will send more information as the dates get closer!

Please select the link below that corresponds to your student’s grade level, and complete the online medical release form for them to attend the Eagle Bluff overnight trip.

Spring Concerts and Performances
There are several upcoming spring concerts and performances, and you’ll want to be sure you’ve marked these on your calendar as they are part of the MPA curriculum and serve as a major assessment milestone in the fine and performing arts. All students are required to attend and perform who are in music, choir, band and orchestra.

  • Thursday, May 5 Middle School Vocal Concert (grades 5-8), 7-9 PM
  • Thursday, May 12 Orchestra Concert (grades 5-12), 7-9 PM
  • Thursday, May 19 Band Concert (grades 5-12), 7-9 PM

As a reminder, all students are expected to wear concert black and be on time for rehearsals that begin prior to the performance. Tonight’s vocal music concert has students reporting for rehearsal and warm-up at 6 PM.

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Lower School Division News May 5, 2022

from Renee Wright, Lower School Director

Marvelous May is Here
We have had a hard time getting spring in Minnesota, but it is finally here!  It has been so nice to see sun this week!  With a little sunshine and a lot of rain we should soon see blossoms on the trees and little shoots poking through the dirt in our gardens.  Just as we all anticipate spring, we also anticipate the end of the school year.  May and June are months full of joyful moments and MPA traditions.  I will share some of these special events coming soon so you can mark your calendar.

  • May 19:  PreK Family Music Event Outdoors at 8:15-8:45 AM (Rain date 5/20)
  • May 31:  LS Track and Field Day at 1-2:45 PM (Rain date 6/2)
  • June 4:  MPA Graduation at 6 PM
  • June 6:   Vocabulary Bee at 8:30 AM (For participants families only.)
  • June 7:   Moving Up Ceremony at 1:30 PM (Grade 4 families only.)
  • June 8:   Last Day–Yearbook assembly at 8:30 AM/Early dismissal
  • June 8:  Kindergarten Graduation at 9 AM

DATES TO REMEMBER:

  • All library books are due May 27
  • No Classes Monday, May 30–Closed to observe Memorial Day

CAMP I CAN FOR GIRLS
Below you will see information about a summer camp for girls. This information comes from Dr. Jules Nolan and Tara Keegan. Read More


Parents Association News & Events May 5, 2022

Thank You!
A huge thank you to everyone who set up, baked, decorated and delivered cookies to all MPA staff on Tuesday, May 3. The Teaching Kitchen was full of volunteers and the sweet smell of freshly baked cookies in celebration of National Teacher Appreciation Day. All employees could grab a cookie or two during lunch and sign up to get a small box delivered to them later in the day. Most boxes had a heart shaped window to go with the National Teacher Appreciation theme, “Teaching is a Work of Heart”. Again, thank you for joining the Parents Association in this event giving back to our MPA staff. – Bakari, attached are a couple of photos if you can use them

Gardening at MPA is Back!
Thursdays at 8 AM
Calling all those who want to spend some time outside, at MPA, in the gardens! You’re invited to spend time in the gardens tidying up, building, sowing, and spuddling around in the dirt. Come for a few minutes or stay for an hour or two. All are most welcome. We’ll meet outside under the flagpole at the Lower School entrance, with gardening tools in hand!

Vote for Next Year’s PA Board
The Parents Association (PA) is an organization formed by and for the MPA parents. Every family is automatically a member and eligible to vote. Please vote for the Executive PA Board for 2022-23 here!

We are also seeking volunteers for the 2022-23 school year. Please consider getting involved. It’s a great way to meet the school community, show our appreciation to faculty and staff, enrich our children’s school experience, all while making new friends and seeing old ones. A willingness to help is the only experience needed. New families are especially encouraged as it’s a great way to get to know your fellow parents. If you are interested in getting involved or have any questions, please contact Staci Banks Herberger (sbhehe42@icloud.com).

Ballot
Co-Presidents: Christine Larson and Staci Banks
President Elect: Michael Soto
Secretary: Seema Anwar
Treasurer: Adi Boeder Risner
LS Division Lead: Michelle Mick
MS Division Lead: Michelle Mick
US Division Lead: Julie Bixby
Communications: Susan Knapp
Community Development Lead: open


Welcome To MPA, Meem Fahlstrom!

MeemMeem Fahlstrom

What position will you be holding at MPA?
K-5 Spanish Sub

From what school/organization are you coming?
Wayzata Public Schools

Tell us a little bit about your education and past experience.
My favorite job was being a 2 week program facilitator for El lago del bosque – Concordia Language Villages. I got my masters in World Language Intruction through Concordia College. I’ve taught at Armstrong High School, Totino-Grace high school, The Churchill School and Center (For Students With Language Based Learning Disabilities) and Wayzata public schools. Fun fact, I’m also licensed to teach Biology/Natural Sciences 5-12.

What did you find appealing about MPA during the interview process?
I met one teacher who said they went to school there and they wanted to teach there – that’s the kind of story that proves the school has major impact on people. Honestly….I saw the tree in the library and the mini door and knew it was the place for me. Also, the Spanish classroom had non-binary pronouns up on the wall as options, which made me feel included. (I’m leaving a district that was less inclusive). Also, all 3 directors are very genuine and easy to connect with.

What’s your big dream?
My big dream is to grow old and still be close with my two nieces.

What are you (and your family, if you so choose) passionate about?
I bike each day after work and read each night. My girlfriend and I enjoy knitting. I own a lot of plants and even name them….I’ve had a pathos named Viney for 14 years. My family revolves around local social justice/activist/art causes…mainly housing/renter rights and environmental stuff.

What’s a fun fact about you that our community would love to know?
I grew up surrounded by Croatian elders. I only have one great aunt left and we are very close.


Belonging At MPA

from Dr. Bill Hudson, Head of School

It has been a hectic several weeks for members of the MPA community! We had a wildly successful Spring Auction with more than 250 parents, alumni parents, alumni, grandparents, faculty, and staff gathered at A’Bulae in St. Paul to celebrate MPA and raise much-needed funds for our students. It was a full house, and everyone seemed to have fun and were undoubtedly happy to be together again.

Yesterday, we hosted Grandparents and Special Friends Day with several hundred attending for Lower, Middle, and Upper School students. For some, it was their first time in the school and the first time experiencing a little bit of the magic that happens each day at MPA. In my opening remarks to the grandparents and special friends, I shared research highlighting the importance of grandparents and mentors/role models to young people’s academic, social, and emotional health and well-being.

The importance of a strong sense of community to the growth and well-being of young people cannot be understated even more so as we emerge from the pandemic. Belonging is an essential human need, and we all require and long for caring, genuine, and ongoing connections with others. In a school environment, students deeply desire to be accepted, respected, included, and supported by others in the school social environment.

A recent article in the New York Times caught my attention and presented evidence that all educators and parents feel instinctively. While I have been concerned about student mental health for some time now, and MPA has made it a priority to address, the article powerfully but sadly presented the current reality of our young people in a post-pandemic society.

There is some good news. In many instances, young people are avoiding high risk behaviors. “Young people are more educated; less likely to get pregnant; use drugs; less likely to die of accident or injury,” said Candice Odgers, a psychologist at the University of California, Irvine. “By many markers, kids are doing fantastic and thriving. But there are these significant trends in anxiety, depression, and suicide that stop us in our tracks.” For example, emergency room visits for suicide attempts rose 51 percent for adolescent girls in early 2021 compared to the same period in 2019. The figure rose four percent for boys.

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Parents Association News & Events

Faculty and Staff Appreciation Day
Tuesday, May 3
Do you like to bake? Smell freshly baked cookies? Make people happy? Thank a teacher or MPA staff member on National Teacher Appreciation Day, May 3. Sign up to come to the Teaching Kitchen and bake some sweet treats for our staff. The Parents Association will provide everything necessary. Sign up here.

Please adhere to MPA Peanut/Tree Nut Awareness for Beverages and Snacks. No peanuts or tree nuts please. Refer to the MPA Food Allergy Guidelines for more information.

Questions? Please contact Tara Matthews Lafferty, TMattRN@aol.com.

Gardening at MPA is Back!
Thursdays at 8 AM
Calling all those who want to spend some time outside, at MPA, in the gardens! You’re invited to spend time in the gardens tidying up, building, sowing, and spuddling around in the dirt. Come for a few minutes or stay for an hour or two. All are most welcome. We’ll meet outside under the flagpole at the Lower School entrance, with gardening tools in hand!

Birdhouse Gourds Return
If you followed our gardening posts from last year, you’ll know that our accidental planting of birdhouse gourds was a huge success. We’ll be planting them again this year. For the full story, click here.


MPA Moments That Matter

from Natalie Waters Seum, director of admission and communication

One Thursday per month you will see a guest Head’s Message from a member of the Institutional Advancement Team. We hope these additional perspectives will help you catch a glimpse inside the inner-workings of your school.

In honor of the conclusion of MPA’s treasured Book Festival, I want to share with you a book I’ve been listening to on my commute. I believe this book should be required reading for everyone in the business of people: “The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact,” by Chip Heath and Dan Heath, the bestselling authors of “Switch” and “Made to Stick.” Like all great books, it was recommended to me by a trusted friend and colleague as one that directly applies to our work in admission and communication.

The premise is that moments matter—our lives are defined by moments—and through intentionality, some moments can matter much more than others. The opportunity lies in our ability to engineer moments that will have a lasting impact on those we serve. They describe in detail the four elements impactful moments often contain and how to build in these elements: Read More


Lower School Division News April 21, 2022

from Renee Wright, Lower School Director

Grandparents & Special Friends Day

We are excited to welcome Grandparents and Special Friends to our campus on Wednesday, April 27 from 9-11:30 AM. Research shows that Grandparents have a huge impact on a child’s life. This can also be said about relationships between a child and a senior adult outside of the immediate family who may serve as a surrogate grandparent. As a child grows up, Grandparents serve as a link between the past, present and future. They introduce kids to past traditions, get involved with them in the present and encourage them to shape the future. Grandparents are the best teachers; teaching children how to cook, sew, fish, play games, or do other favorite activities. They share stories that provide life lessons for their grandchildren. Grandparents love attending their grandchildren’s sports, activities, dance recitals, and school concerts and provide much needed praise and encouragement. They listen intently and give wise advice. This day is a huge tribute to grandparents and special friends and a way for us to say thank you for supporting your grandchildren or special friends.

During this special event grandparents and special friends will have the opportunity to visit their child’s homeroom classroom plus two specialist classrooms. Grandparents will get a glimpse of what happens on campus, meet their student’s teachers, view schoolwork their students have created, and participate in fun activities.

Grandparents and special friends should arrive at 8:30 AM and will enjoy coffee and treats in our Family Commons between 8:30 AM and 9 AM. They will start the day by hearing from our Head of School, Dr. Hudson, and learn more about our amazing school. Make sure to register in advance for this special day! Read More


Middle School Division News April 21, 2022

From Dr. Jenn Milam, Middle School Director

A Sprint to the Finish!
The next thirty-two days of school (yes, we’re counting) are some of the busiest, most fun, and most full days in our school calendar. I encourage you to keep up to date with what’s happening in our community and try to be a part of as much as you can. The MPA experience holds community and joy as cornerstones of our mission—you won’t want to miss out!

Grade 6 and 7 Overnights
We are excited to share that we have been able to (re)schedule the overnight class excursions for sixth and seventh grades at Eagle Bluff. The seventh-grade class will travel to Eagle Bluff (Lanesboro, MN) on Monday, May 23 and return Wednesday, May 25. Similarly, the sixth-grade class will leave on Wednesday, June 1 and return on Friday, June 3. We will send more information as the dates get closer!

Spring Concerts and Performances
There are several upcoming spring concerts and performances, and you’ll want to be sure you’ve marked these on your calendar as they are part of the MPA curriculum and serve as a major assessment milestone in the fine and performing arts. All students are required to attend and perform who are in music, choir, band and orchestra.

  • Thursday, May 5 Middle School Vocal Concert (grades 5-8), 7-9PM
  • Thursday, May 12 Orchestra Concert (grades 5-12), 7-9PM
  • Thursday, May 19 Band Concert (grades 5-12), 7-9PM

Let’s Dream: See You There!
We’re excited for the 2022 MPA Spring Auction: Let’s Dream, which will be held tomorrow Friday, April 22 at A’bulae in Lowertown. This is an opportunity for our entire community to gather safely together and celebrate the year. The event will feature an amazing meal, fun games and prizes, and the chance to bid on and win wonderful auction items, all in support of the MPA community. The event raises more than $200,000 in support MPA students, staff, and teachers.

If you have any last minutes questions or wonderings, please contact Jennifer Rogers-Petitt, director of development and community engagement, via email at jrogers@moundsparkacademy.org or at 651-748-5532 with any questions.

Quarter 3 Grades and Placements for 2022-2023
Grades for Quarter 3 are officially posted and can be accessed through Schoology and placement letters have been mailed and you should be receiving your student’s placement for mathematics and world language. Please note that these decisions are collaborative and consider a student’s work habits, assessment average, and potential for success. It is important that we work correctly to place students in the appropriate classes where they are adequately challenged and have the most opportunity to be successful.

If you have specific questions, concerns, or want to discuss the next school year, please reach out to your student’s current advisor or me or send an email with your thoughts and wonderings.

Spring Sports are in Full Swing!
Spring is a great time for Middle Schools sports and between practices, games, matches, and meets, all of us are running in a hundred different directions. You can always access the weekly athletic schedule here by clicking on “Weekly Schedule.” Checking in regularly throughout the week, especially if the weather is questionable, will help you stay informed of delays, reschedules, cancellations, locations, and times of events.

As an added notice, please pay particular attention to the end times of events and practices. Students are not allowed to “hang out” unsupervised until you arrive. This is a safety issue and to which I hold very firm. If you are not able to be at school when a practice or game is over, your student must go to Panther Den or you must make other arrangements for them to be picked-up/driven home. If you have questions or concerns about this, please reach out to the Middle School office.

Save The Date: Middle School Family Dinner and Transition Meetings
Please mark your calendars for Thursday, May 5, for the Middle School family dinner and Transition Meetings immediately preceding the Middle School Vocal Concert. We will share dinner, hosted by the Parents Association, and then when the students move to prepare for the concert, parents and families are invited to meet with teachers of their students next grade level to learn about events, what to expect, and next year’s challenges and possibilities! More details to follow with a request to RSVP! We hope to see you there!

Why American Teens Are So Sad:
Four Forces are Propelling the Rising Rates of Depression Among Young People
I recently happened upon this article in The Atlantic that shares a perspective of what is driving American teens to higher incidences of depression and anxiety. The author, Derek Thompson, offers four primary forces acting upon and through our young people and shares some insights and wisdoms about how we might counter these forces to build stronger, more resilient, and more well-balanced young people.

He also identifies fallacies that often plague our understanding of teenage mental health and depression, in the current moment. By scapegoating things COVID, offering overly simplified explanations of poor behavior, or attributing depression to typical “moodiness” among this age group, we miss the opportunity to help our young people.

Thompson suggests the following four forces have the most significant impact on teenage depression:

  1. Social Media Use
    There is significant evidence to suggest that when personal device ownership increased, so too did rates of social media usage by teens. This also correlates with a dramatic increase in anxiety, depression, feelings of social isolation, and sadness.
  2. Sociality is Down
    Thomspon explains that the increase of social media, in and of itself, may not be to blame, but that because young people are less social, in person/face-to-face, that the retreat to devices, digital gaming, and social media are also a culprit in teenage depression. Add in the lack of socialization over the last two years due to Covid, and we have missed opportunities to engage in the most important part of teenage development – being with other teens!
  3. The World is Stressful – and there is more news about the world’s stressors
    No doubt our young people are impacted, and so is their emotional state, as they seek to regulate to the adults and the world around them, which at any given moment seems to be in a constant state of distress. Financial fears, climate change, pandemics, war, violence, and increased racial tension in a complex political climate, all serve to stoke the flames of worry, sadness, anxiety, and depression.
  4. Modern Parenting Strategies
    Parents have nearly doubled the amount of time we spend with our children – chauffeuring, coaching, tutoring, supporting, driving, and managing. More, Thompson notes, our increase in “accommodative” parenting is becoming unhealthy and hurting our young people. As we seek to remove all heartache, anxiety, struggle, worry, failure, consequence, or negative outcomes from our children’s lives, even with the best intent, it teaches them that they are not capable, that we do not trust them, that we do not believe they can manage on their own, and they miss the opportunity to learn how to process negative emotions, individually and with others in their lives. And when young people don’t learn to process, they become overwhelmed and mired in sadness, unable to find the way out.

Thompson shares that of course it isn’t any one of the above factors that is to blame, and certainly there are others, but I believe the take-away is that perhaps by understanding the things that are making our kids sad, even if it’s our own doing, we can work to counter these forces and help our young people learn to navigate the hard stuff alongside the really, really, really good things. We can all do hard things.

I hope you’ll read and reflect upon the full article, available here. Be well and take care of each other!

Important Dates

  • April 22: 5th Grade Math Masters Competition
    • MPA Spring Auction
  • April 27: Grandparents and Special Friends Day, 12:30-2:30PM
  • May 5: Middle School Family Dinner (with Rising Fifth Graders)
    • Middle School Vocal Concert, 7 PM
  • May 12: Middle School/Upper School Orchestra Concert, 7 PM
  • May 19: Middle School/Upper School Art Show, Opens at 6 PM
    • Middle School/Upper School Band Concert, 7 PM
  • May 23-25: Grade 7 Overnight, Eagle Bluff
  • June 1-3: Grade 6 Overnight, Eagle Bluff