Choosing What Matters: How Families Find the Best-Fit School

Lower School boy in parachute in PEExamine core values when making school-choice decisions

The average adult makes 35,000 decisions a day. While there is no research on how many decisions a working parent navigates daily, it is likely far more than that average. For parents, selecting the best-fit school for a child involves numerous considerations ranging from academic rigor to school culture. Every family must weigh these factors in relation to their values, hopes, and circumstances.
Many parents today have access to different school types such as traditional public schools, charter schools, private schools, religious private schools, parochial schools, and independent schools. Even within these categories, individual schools vary greatly in philosophy, instructional methods, and student experience. There is no universal best choice. Parents must determine the environment where each child will most effectively learn, grow, and belong; the answer might even differ within a family.

Deciding about school selection

Families often wonder how to thoughtfully approach a decision that holds long-term implications for their child’s education and well-being. Acclaimed decision coach Nell Wulfhart, who specializes in helping individuals navigate difficult choices, uses two exercises with her clients that translate effectively to school selection.

First, parents can create a list of daily-life values that matter most for their child, ranked in order of importance. These are not moral or religious values, but rather conditions that help a child feel engaged and supported such as individualized attention or freedom to explore multiple interests. Then, parents can evaluate which school options align most closely with those priorities.
Second, parents can map out what they hope life will look like for their child and family in one, five, and 10 years and determine which school options align with the desired trajectory.
Below, two families illustrate how clarifying core values guided them to their best-fit school.

Middle School students raising hands in classBeing seen, heard, and known

As a former middle school social worker, Mindy Ruane learned the importance of belonging during early adolescence. She wanted her children in a school where they would be “seen as individuals.” With this value in mind, Ruane enrolled her then-fifth, third, and first graders at Mounds Park Academy (MPA), a PreK-12 independent school in St. Paul. MPA has a total enrollment of 571 students, featuring an average class size of 15 and student-teacher ratio of 7:1.

“During the first week of school, I asked my son how he liked MPA, and he joyfully replied that ‘he got called on a lot,’” said Ruane. “Knowing that my children’s voices are going to be heard—and that participation is expected—has been transformational for my children. The school culture encourages students to contribute and take ownership of their learning.”

Cultivating interests beyond the classroom

For Kari Kunze-Hoeg and her husband, both of whom valued academics, athletics, and the arts, it was important that their daughters attend a school offering broad opportunities without pressure to specialize too early. Their daughters attended MPA from PreK through graduation and enjoyed the regular inclusion of world languages, the arts, physical education, technology, and more in addition to rigorous academics. In the end, their daughters (MPA ’22 and ’24) pursued basketball, volleyball, theater, and orchestra, and now both attend Wellesley College and play DIII volleyball together.Boys soccer team celebrating win
“At MPA, students are able to pursue multiple activities simultaneously and can achieve excellence,” said Kunze-Hoeg, who is also MPA’s Upper School Spanish teacher. “During my eldest daughter’s senior year, she advanced to the state competition in debate and participated in the state tournament in volleyball—during the same season—which was only possible given the supportive school community.”

Developing critical skills in the digital age

Ruane, now a fifth and sixth-grade English teacher at MPA, believes it is more important than ever for children to learn the writing process, read novels, and practice those skills daily.

“There is no way to entertain yourself to a good education,” said Ruane. “Students must do the work and put in the time to be strong readers, writers, public speakers, and critical thinkers. Too often students are reading excerpts of stories as opposed to full-length novels that force them to slow down and read for a sustained period.”

Ruane has students write in journals daily for 10 minutes straight to build their skills and stamina, so they have more confidence in formal exercises.

Choosing what matters most

Selecting the best-fit school for a child often feels like one of the most consequential decisions a parent can make. Prioritizing values and examining them through a longer-term lens can help parents identify the school environment that most closely aligns with the academic and extracurricular experiences they want for their child.


Lower School Division News October 30, 2025

A Lower School student looks at an FD hat.from James Ewer, Lower School director 

As October comes to a close, we enter a season that calls us to slow down, notice, and give thanks. This is the time of year when students begin to settle into routines and friendships deepen. It’s also a perfect moment to pause and help our children reflect on the people and experiences that fill their lives with meaning.

Gratitude isn’t just about saying “thank you.” It’s about recognizing how others contribute to our joy and growth. When families take time to name moments of kindness—big or small—it helps children understand empathy at a deeper level. They begin to see the world not only through their own eyes but through the experiences of others.

Try weaving gratitude into your family rhythm. At dinner or bedtime, ask your child:

  • Who made your day better today, and how?
  • What’s one thing you’re grateful for that you didn’t notice yesterday?
  • When did you make someone else’s day better?
  • What did you learn about yourself through something that didn’t go as planned?

These moments of reflection help our children grow in compassion, humility, and joy. Gratitude grounds us. It reminds us that even in a busy world, connection is what matters most.

Peace and Love,

Mr. James

SEL in the Classrooms
Lower School students will take part in Social Emotional Learning (SEL) lessons every other week. These lessons will help students build skills in self-awareness, empathy, communication, and problem-solving. In addition, we’ll be offering small groups and lunch bunch opportunities to further support students’ social growth and connection within our school community. Read More


Welcome To MPA, Ms. Pam Gronski!

Pam Gronski, a new hire at MPAWe are pleased to share that Pam Gronski will be joining us starting on Monday, November 3, as MPA’s first manager of campus safety and security. This role will be responsible for ensuring a safe, secure, and welcoming environment for students, faculty, staff, families, and visitors across all campus facilities and events.

The manager will work collaboratively with school leadership, local law enforcement, and emergency services to maintain best practices in school safety and crisis response. Please read more about Pam and her background below!

From what school/organization are you coming?
I worked previously for the St. Louis Park Police Department.

Tell us about your education and past experience.
I am a recently retired police officer of 23 years. Twelve of those years, I served as a school resource officer. During my time, I also served as a crisis negotiator, peer support member, field training officer, reserve coordinator, and bike patrol member.

What did you find appealing about MPA?
The overwhelming sense of community and the numerous educational and extracurricular opportunities offered to the students.

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A Fantastic Way To Explore MPA

Ninth grade student using the climbing wall at MPAThis message is from MPA’s Office of Admission from the October 27, 2025 issue of InsideMPA. Click here to get in touch with Admission and learn more!

No matter where you are in your school search, a fantastic way to explore MPA is the PreK-12 MPA Preview on Sunday, November 9, at 12:30 PM and the Taste of Ninth Grade that precedes it for prospective ninth-grade families at 11 AM. These engaging events invite your whole family to see why you belong here.

From the moment you step onto campus, you’ll experience the warm, dynamic learning environment that our students thrive in. The Preview also allows you to explore the diverse programs and innovative teaching methods that define the MPA experience. Step into the Makerspace for a world of hands-on exploration, reach new heights on the climbing wall, immerse yourself in cultural celebrations from Latin America, and so much more; explore all of the MPA Preview Experiences here. You’ll not only gain insight into our curriculum, but also connect with the passionate faculty who make MPA so special. Read More


Deep And Meaningful Connections

A Lower School student and her grandparentsfrom Dr. Lori-Anne Brogdon, head of school

As I reflect on the past two weeks, the theme that stands out most to me is connection. The foundation of Mounds Park Academy’s community rests on the deep and meaningful connections developed among our students, families, faculty, staff, and alumni.

Last Monday, before taking a deep dive into our ISACS work for MPA’s upcoming re-accreditation, most of our faculty and staff spent several hours in the Manitou Forest. This time was dedicated to appreciating the opportunity to be outdoors, where we could connect with nature and each other. The results of our time together were seen in the smiles, heard in the songs faculty and staff sang as they walked the leaf-covered paths, and felt in the warm sunshine and crisp air. The experience filled everyone with cheer and levity.

The week continued with an incredible Grandparents and Special Friends Day, where classrooms and hallways were filled with students beaming with pride as they shared MPA with their loved ones, further deepening the connection between their school and home lives. Read More


Celebrating 20 Years of Curiosity, Creativity, And Care In PreK At MPA

PreK student smiling in her classroomThe 2025–26 school year marks the 20th anniversary of PreK at Mounds Park Academy. When our program began in 2005 with just 11 students, we could only imagine the vibrant learning community it would grow into. Twenty years later, we have twice as many students and four dedicated teachers who nurture their learning and care each day. Our PreK classroom is a warm, joyful environment where young children learn through play, inquiry, and exploration.

The Science Behind Early Learning

Looking ahead to the next twenty years, we remain focused on continuous growth and the use of best practices grounded in research. Neuroscience shows that the early years are the most critical in human development. In a 2023 article titled, “Brain Development in Early Childhood,” Dr. Anisa Kelley, a neurologist at Children’s Hospital of Chicago wrote, “There is massive growth and development of the brain in the first couple of years of life–90 percent of brain development is complete by age five.” Similarly, Dr. Rishi Sriram of Baylor University reminds parents that early education is far more than a prelude to “real” learning. “Children’s brains can uniquely absorb information during this critical phase. If intelligence is defined as the ability to learn, children between the ages of two and seven may be the most intelligent humans on the planet.” This makes high-quality early childhood education one of the most powerful investments in a child’s future success.

Our Commitment To Excellence In Early Education

At MPA, one way we uphold this commitment is through accreditation with the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC), the nation’s leading organization in early learning. As a NAEYC-recognized program, we demonstrate excellence not only in curriculum and teaching, but also in building strong, trusting relationships with families, fostering equity and ethics, and supporting the ongoing growth of our teachers and leaders.

As an independent PreK–12 school, MPA is also proud to be an accredited member of the Independent Schools Association of the Central States (ISACS). The rigorous accreditation process ensures that we are held accountable to the highest educational standards at every grade level. Together, ISACS accreditation and NAEYC recognition affirm our commitment to the very best in education.

NAEYC’s Standards In Action

NAEYC has developed nine standards to identify quality in early childhood programs. Each one is woven into the fabric of MPA’s PreK experience.

  1. Relationships: Warm relationships with teachers support brain development and help children build their sense of self.
  2. Families and Community: Families are a child’s first teachers. They play an important role in a student’s education and growth and their culture, language, and traditions all influence learning. MPA values strong partnerships with each student’s parents and caregivers.
  3. Curriculum: MPA’s uses curriculum that aligns with research, has developmentally appropriate goals, provides a rich variety of content, and is culturally responsive, with the intent of offering the best learning experiences for young children.
  4. Teaching: Intentional teaching of age-appropriate skills, lessons that are both child-led, and teacher-directed, and a variety of hands-on experiences are all strategies that encourage active learning in young children. MPA promotes learning through play in an environment where all students feel valued and included.
  5. Assessment: Educators observe and assess students’ progress regularly and use the results to build lessons that match their needs, strengths, and interests. Assessments ensure the program is doing its part to guide students toward learning goals and help educators and families identify students who may benefit from additional support or intervention.
  6. Health: This goes beyond ensuring the facility is clean and safe; it guides programs to support good nutrition and overall well-being in students and adults. Safety is a top priority and all staff have extensive training in emergency preparedness.
  7. Physical Environment: Indoor and outdoor learning environments are thoughtfully designed for young children. MPA’s spaces foster active learning, comfort, and safety for students, teachers, and families.
  8. Professionalism: Educators have specific experience in early childhood education and child development. They create warm relationships and supportive learning environments to help students thrive. Ongoing professional development for teachers keeps them up to date as research evolves.
  9. Leadership and Management: The program’s leadership ensures a positive, supportive working environment for teachers, designs and implements strong policies that guide their practice, and creates systems that align with the school’s mission and values.

PreK students gardening outside in the science gardensLearning Through Play And Exploration

In practice, these standards come to life each day through meaningful learning experiences led by caring early childhood educators. Our learning spaces are intentionally designed to nurture academic, physical, social, and emotional growth. While clear learning outcomes guide us, our curriculum remains flexible and responsive to the unique needs and interests of each child.

In the PreK classroom, teachers thoughtfully observe students’ interests and bring their ideas to life. Teacher Hannah Halvorson invites students to be part of the creation of play areas in the classroom. Noticing that a group of students enjoys pretending to go on trips, she helped them create a city bus in the dramatic play area. The students helped to paint the cardboard structure and write destinations on their rotating sign. “The students have such strong creative and imagination skills,” she says. “We honor this when we let students lead in play and engage in world-building. Open-ended dramatic play helps students develop a sense of ownership in the classroom, expand their verbal skills, and strengthen relationships with one another.”

Teacher Mandi Wilson enjoys finding ways to embed learning into play. “We weave concepts from literacy, numeracy, science, and art into play experiences,” she explains. “This might include a science table where students explore textures or make patterns in an art project. The students often don’t realize they are practicing language or math skills because it feels like play.”

Building Confidence, Compassion, and Community

Each day, you will see young students laughing as they construct castles out of blocks, create masterpieces at the easel, and build friendships as they explore the classroom together. Our students grow as curious, joyful learners who find connection, wonder, and the foundation for a lifetime of learning.

PreK students playing outside with fifth grade buddiesTeacher Maria Smith focuses on the most important parts of the PreK experience. “Learning how to be a part of a group, manage big feelings, navigate the lunchroom, take turns in a game, and persevere through challenges is just as important as learning numbers and letters. At this age, students are learning how school works, and we are here to help set them up for success.”

Looking Ahead To The Next 20 Years

The story of MPA’s PreK program is rooted in a steadfast commitment to care for young learners. From its beginnings two decades ago, it has become an important part of our PreK-12 community. Our teachers and families share a deep belief in the power of high-quality early childhood learning.

As we celebrate this 20-year milestone, we look to the future with great excitement and a passion for excellence. Inspired by the mission and values that have guided us from the beginning, we will continue to hold ourselves to the highest standards so that our students can always dream big and do right.


Then & Now: MPA’s Multigenerational Educators

The Stacy's in the morning prior to school “I worked at MPA for five years before Emma was born,” Deedee recalls. “When she joined our family, it was obvious only a parent could tend to her. She was ‘full blast,’ as one of her five-year-old friends put it.”

Deedee stepped away from her classroom to embrace life at home, nurturing Emma’s energy and individuality.

“When she reached school age, I was worried about how she would navigate the large class sizes and stricter rules in a public-school setting,” Deedee said. “Emma started kindergarten at MPA because we realized she needed a place where she could be feisty and still survive the adults she would encounter.”

Growing up surrounded by MPA’s mission and community left a lasting imprint.

“Being raised at MPA, Emma knew she was charged with making the world a better place,” Deedee said.

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A Closer Look At The PreK-12 MPA Preview Experiences

Explore the climbing wall at the MPA Preview!The PreK-12 MPA Preview on November 9, 12:30-2 PM, is a signature PreK-12 event designed to introduce prospective families to the faculty, students, and families who make MPA the exceptional learning community it is. You’ll hear from a variety of perspectives, engage in conversation with academic leaders, participate in experiences led by expert teachers, and leave with a much better understanding of the MPA way.

Explore the MPA experiences to plan your day!

Lower School Homeroom Teacher Meet & Connect
Recommended for Lower School
Meet our Lower School teachers! Stop into the homeroom of the grade(s) you’re exploring to meet, connect, and ask any questions you may have for our faculty.

Reach New Heights On The MPA Climbing Wall
Open to all ages PreK-12
Belay on! The MPA climbing wall is open to all skill levels and ages. With MPA physical education teachers as your guides, you’ll receive tips and support to reach new heights. Read More


Lower School Division News October 9, 2025

A Lower School student reading his book.from James Ewer, Lower School director 

We’re fully in the swing of things now, and it’s wonderful to see our routines firmly in place. Your littles are continuing to grow, explore, and bring their incredible energy to every corner of our school.

This week, we’re celebrating conferences—a special time for teachers to share just how much they love and appreciate your children. It’s a moment to reflect on their progress, highlight their strengths, and set intentions for continued growth. We invite you to come with questions and an open heart, ready to strengthen the partnership of communication that makes our community so strong.

As always, what guides us is at the heart of everything we do: peace in how we learn and live together, and love in how we show up for one another every single day. Your children are thriving because of this foundation, and conferences are one more way we celebrate that growth and connection together.

Peace and Love,

Mr. Ewer Read More


Discover The #2 Private School In MN

Students cheering on peers at HomecomingThis message is from MPA’s Office of Admission from the October 8, 2025 issue of InsideMPA. Click here to get in touch with Admission and learn more!

Last week, the Niche.com rankings were released, and we are delighted to announce that MPA is the #2 ranked private school in Minnesota! Celebrating this achievement honors our community of dedicated faculty, supportive families, engaged alumni, and curious, joyful students–an essential part of what makes MPA such a special place to learn and grow.

Being recognized as one of the top schools in the state is about more than test scores–it’s about the unique, joyful learning that students experience at MPA every day. Here, they are encouraged to think critically, act with empathy, and embrace challenges with creativity and confidence. Our holistic approach to education fosters not just academic excellence, but also the social and emotional growth that prepares students to thrive in school and in life. Read More